Bipolar disorder is an illness of extremes, but not every person with the condition experiences the same range of extremes. That means that families will also have varying experiences since the illness, by extension, affects every family member. And yet, others who are living in a similar situation can provide
much-needed support.
Bipolar disorder is characterized by mood swings that fluctuate from highly energized and positive (mania) to sad and unmotivated (depression). Some, though not all, people with the disorder may become aggressive during mania. On the other hand, depressive episodes may be such that the person feels incapable of meeting responsibilities like going to work, cleaning the house or even taking care of themselves. Obviously, family members in either situation may struggle with feelings of anger toward the person with bipolar when this is the case. But they often feel guilty about their anger too. After all, their loved one has an illness.
Friends and co-workers may not understand what family members are going through and may be at a loss as to what to say. The struggles, embarrassments and guilt can lead families to become increasingly isolated. A bipolar disorder family support group can provide a much-needed social connection where challenges are well understood. Comfort and compassion from other people sharing a similar experience can mean the difference between families that hold together and those that tear at the
seams.
It’s important that the loved one with bipolar disorder gets treatment. Many episodes can be improved through medication, lifestyle adjustments and individual therapy. The illness can be tremendously improved with attention. But nearly as important is the support given to family members who are walking this journey with their loved one. If someone in your family has bipolar disorder, make sure they seek out help. You and other family members deserve some help too, and a family support group is a great place to start. Contact Family Guidance today and see what services they can provide to help every member of the family.
